Connor Gwin constantly feels like everyone else got a manual for life while he did not. Most everything he does is an attempt to finally be enough. Exhibit A: he is an Episcopal priest, Chaplain at Stuart Hall School, and Canon for Social Engagement and Young Adult Formation in the Diocese of Southwestern Virginia. He is an Enneagram Four but is fairly certain that he does not believe in personality typing systems. (Which is such a classic Four thing to say.) Connor lives in Staunton, VA, with his wife Emma, their nine-month-old daughter, and an old dog named Jackson. Connor is a regular contributor to Mockingbird.